The ultimate HOW TO DOMME-course

embodying the DOMINATRIX-archetype

    I’m going to be real with you in the decade I’ve spent being a professional international dominatrix, the one question that I’ve been asked the most is this:

    “How can I be more like you?”

    It’s taken me a bit to conclude that most people don’t necessarily want to become a professional sex worker, but rather, want to obtain the skills, confidence & no-bullshit attitude that we sex-workers proudly flaunt.

    You asked I delivered.

    Become a winner

    • How to go from a passive “yes” that you don’t even mean [people pleasing], to saying NO, with discernment and self-pleasing.
    • How to find your inner voice & recognize its whisper to Unleashing its Loud & Clear Guidance
    • How to FIRMLY stand your ground, establish your boundaries & make them stick
    • How to go from never speaking up to expressing your desires & needs
    • How to break through the societal lies such as “selfishness”, “good and bad”, “overextending yourself will get you results”-and other fallacies that govern you.
    • How to move through the guilt you’ve been programmed to feel, whenever you DO choose yourself.
      How to have confidence, internal coherence, sovereignty & autonomy –or the lack of it- will show up in all aspects of your life: friendship, business, sec, career, parenting & finances
    • How to take control of and protect yourself in conversations: recognizing communicative methods such as gaslighting, derailing, deflecting, what-about-isms, and more.
    • And lastly, How to get motherfucking comfortable with your dark desires that are inevitably present in love, sex, money, power, autonomy and confidence

    For I’ve found that all these elements are energetically intertwined & directly correlated.

    BONUS:

    If you do want to pursue a career in any type of sex-work, I have a huge bonus section made specifically for you- what to do, what not to do, what to pay attention to, the differing platforms, types of sex-work, creating a persona, safety measures (digital & in real life), as well as some scripts, examples & books that will help you accomplish your goals.


    A not-so-secret bonus includes a workshop with our Lilith Sheba Babalon and the ultimate actual witch Elise Oursa

    Ultimate Dominatrix Course

    Who am I?

    Perhaps you’ve followed and known me for years, but in case you haven’t:

     I am an internationally recognized, world-traveling, ball-bashing, man-slandering, money-loving dominatrix and I go by the name of Soviet Mercedes.

    By popular moral I am not a good person…

    Simply because I have learned that people’s compass of good and bad is too gullible and influenced by external factors and most of the people are so out of touch with even the slightest concept of an individual moral compass. 

     I am vocal and loud about my desires – and my boundaries.

     If you follow me anywhere on social media, you’ll have seen me slander people (men) for disrespectful behavior, futile attempts to silence me, or for trying to use manipulation tactics on me.

     Joke’s on them: I have been manipulating men since puberty

    This is about you

    This is not about doing things exactly as I do, but about building similar characteristics and skills that will give you the ability to do what I do: win at life, unapologetically be yourself and go forward in a way that is fulfilling for YOU.

    You will see that this is not just about living a flashy life – even though that may very well be a direct result.

    This is not about being as vocal or publicly loud as you can be – even though you might choose for that to be a part of it.

    This is about YOU.

    This is about leveling up.

    This is about me helping you dig through the bullshit, dogmatic non-sense and layers that we have been brainwashed with. Very few demonstrate the alternative OR more importantly – HOW THEY GOT THERE.

    This is me sharing that path.

    The journey might be painful, OR it might be light and joyful, but a journey it will be – and I am beyond honored and blessed to be a part of this chapter of yours.

    I PROMISE you

    Doing the work is BEYOND worth it, and yes – it will be even BETTER than you could have imagined.

    I am tired of seeing ONLY the same demographic win.

    Come and Meet Me At The Bank (regardless of whether this is a financial, emotional, spiritual, or physical bank), and let’s get to it.

    With love and Fearless Wealth,

    Your opinionated cunt whore dominatrix friend, money witch, demon whisperer, alleged demon queen, business bitch, and 5 percenter,

    Soviet Mercedes.

    You can check the testimonials here and the faqs here

    What people say about this course and this website

    Vital for Financial Transformation

    Soviet Mercedes, the Money Witch, is a vital agent for financial transformation. In a world that thinks inside of patriarchal constructs, she breaks through the illusions that bind us. In one conversation, she dissolved a curse I had been under all of my life. After that moment, wealth poured into my life from resources that… Read more “Vital for Financial Transformation”

    Kathleen Prophet

    Invest in yourself!

    I prefer to surround myself with people who are “go-getters”, whatever my people choose to pursue, I am here for it. Meaning, if I can support in any way possible, whether it be financial or moral support, I am their girl. This brings me to my beautiful wife Soviet Mercedes aka Demon Whisperer aka Money… Read more “Invest in yourself!”

    Lilith Sheeba Babalon

    Life Altering

    I met Soviet Mercedes at a low point in my life. Next to the radiance coming of of her as a person that just makes you want to be in her presence, and the example she sets as a woman that you cant help but want to emulate at least facets of, she is such… Read more “Life Altering”

    Ashley Groenewald

    Fierce Magick

    “Bara holds that fierce magick, and she’s a true teacher of the wild truths, a no-nonsense leader who understands the merit of her wisdom, the power of the body, and the precarious state of our world.”

    Danielle Dulsky

    What does the Ultimate how to domme course look like?

    Over 25 hours of pre-recorded lectures.

    DOMINATRIX- Archetype embodiment

    Who are you and how to have fun exploring this

    • Undoing the layers of programming by religion, society and upbringing: who are you underneath?
    • Life is all about boundaries: Learning to say NO so you can create more YES-experiences in life
    • Why your sexuality and confidence with self will affect YOUR WHOLE LIFE

    BONUS LECTURES

    BONUS WORKSHOP WITH THE LILITL BABALON– How modern self portraits are a PORTAL to boost your confidence

    BONUS WORKSHIP WITH THE ACTUAL WITCH ELISE OURSA – How to AGGRESSIVELY take back ownership of your life when you have found yourself in a victim position or passive stance towards life

    Journal prompts, mindset-shifting foundations, practical exercises, meditations, different music playlists to generate certain feelings, sex industry dictionary….and much much more…

    Extra Sex Career Path

    • What type of sex work is there
    • What fetishes exist
    • What avenues to explore
    • How to build a persona
    • Safety measurements to take
    • Idea to execution – presenting yourself in a digital era
    • What NOT to do
    • How to diversify your income stream
    • How to ENJOY the process
    • Aesthetic that works for you
    • Time-wasting: a speed course

    Launched July 2021!